Below are some of the changes women would want to notice in their men, be it husbands, boyfriends or even sons once they get to 30 years.
We generally think that after these 3 decades (sounds pretty long) every person should progress to a better version of themselves and here is to what core disciplines men should check on.
Commitment Issues: It is usual for men to have commitment issues in their 20s. They usually do not want to settle down with a woman so early when they believe they still have a lot to experience in life. This is true but when you turn 30, it is perhaps time to settle down and be more committed with someone.
This is a new chapter of life and it will be a different level of experience and fun with the person you love.
Reckless Driving: 30s is definitely not the time to look cool and seek attention from people. Those days of reckless driving, not caring about the traffic, playing loud music and yelling at others are gone. If you still feel that way, you shouldn’t really be allowed behind the wheel and it’s time to grow up.
Binge Drinking: Most teenagers and men in their early twenties love to binge drink. However, this habit generally fades as you grow older. The faster you act, the better it is since a habit that has been controlling you for so long, can be tough to eliminate.
Getting Into Petty Fights: Bar fights may sound cool for a young adult, but if you are in your 30s and are getting into fights, it will just make you look daft. Learn to sort things out with someone in a more civilized manner. Either you can just talk to resolve the issue or walk away.
Too Much Video Games: Playing video games is a great way to pass time and men love it. Due to the rise of android apps, guys can play games anywhere with their smart phones when they have to wait around for something and so it’s easy to keep boredom at bay.
However, if you get caught up in too much playing video games where you are not able to accomplish important tasks, then this addictive behavior has to be stopped.
Persisting In Dead-End Jobs: If you are working at a company where you don’t like the job and see no future in it, you need to re-think a bit.
It is probably ok in your 20s to not care much, but when you are in your 30s, it is important to know yourself and your dreams better and work towards things that make you happier.
Long term planning is quite essential for you to progress further.
Partying Frequently: Night clubs are for underage teenagers with fake IDs these days. If you are in your thirties and going to the nightclubs often, you start to realize that somehow, you don’t fit in anymore. Instead, consider going to the movies or perhaps for an intimate dinner at a nice restaurant.
Be classier in your living approach. Thirties is the time to change. This does not mean that all your fun will be no more; you will find it more important hanging out with “MEN” not just some random guys who have less constructive ideas to share.